- Communication usually fails, except by accident.
- If communication can fail, it will.
- If communication cannot fail, it still most usually fails.
- If communication seems to succeed in the intended way, there’s a misunderstanding.
- If you are content with your message, communication certainly fails.
- If a message can be interpreted in several ways, it will be interpreted in a manner that maximizes the damage.
- There is always someone who knows better than you what you meant with your message.
- The more we communicate; the worse communication succeeds.
- The more we communicate; the faster misunderstandings propagate.
- In mass communication, the important thing is not how things are but how they seem to be.
- The importance of a news item is inversely proportional to the square of the distance.
- The more important the situation is, the more probable you had forgotten an essential thing that you remembered a moment ago.
The illusion of communication
The greatest problem with communication is the illusion that it has been accomplished. —William H. Whyte

Communication sent ≠ communication received
I was told as a lieutenant- communication sent does not equal communication received. Never forgot it…and it became increasingly evident as I grew older. —Shannon Huffman Polson (one of the first women to fly the Apache helicopter in the U.S. Army)

You can change
2/22/20

Two power words

Always choose incompetence over cunning
“In explaining any puzzling Washington phenomenon, always choose stupidity over conspiracy, incompetence over cunning. Anything else gives them too much credit.” ― Charles Krauthammer (1950-2018)

“The closer you can be to where you are supposed to be will be to your benefit.”

Regret is scarier than change. — Mel Robbins

“A great marriage has 2 sincere apologizers and 2 merciful forgivers.” Hank Smith
